I've worked since the age of 14...since I was married I worked 3 jobs at some times, jumped at overtime opportunities, and always worked (same company for 20+ years). Now after 13 years of marriage, 3 counsellors, 1 on-line counsellor we are separated. On my end it was primarily due receiving lack of communication from my spouse, lack of affection, lack of respect, lack of physical touch (your husband should not pull away when you rub/touch his arm) etc...I couldn't take it anymore and all of this is documented in our on-line counselling experience.
So...With my husbands family for over 15 years I've grown to love his parents and have always treated his parents like my own. He has told me I cannot see them (in turn my parents have sent emails, and physically have seen each other and remain more than amicable-letting him know that he will always be family).
I have found out he has told his family I was having an affair (not !)...all of our problems are in our online documentation which is viewable to anyone ! Why would my ex lie like this -it is very hurtful and I'm feeling even more crushed because I've lost a set of 'parents' whom I respected dearly and never anticipated I'd have to lose complete contact with them.
Any advice...I'm sure not everyone loves their mother/father in-law but I'm feeling more upset about their loss than I am about my ex...UGH !
So...With my husbands family for over 15 years I've grown to love his parents and have always treated his parents like my own. He has told me I cannot see them (in turn my parents have sent emails, and physically have seen each other and remain more than amicable-letting him know that he will always be family).
I have found out he has told his family I was having an affair (not !)...all of our problems are in our online documentation which is viewable to anyone ! Why would my ex lie like this -it is very hurtful and I'm feeling even more crushed because I've lost a set of 'parents' whom I respected dearly and never anticipated I'd have to lose complete contact with them.
Any advice...I'm sure not everyone loves their mother/father in-law but I'm feeling more upset about their loss than I am about my ex...UGH !
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