It bears noting that while I have clearly not made the smartest decisions in terms of man picking or allowing his name to go on the deed to a house I paid for, I refused to assume any of his debt or create any joint debt. The only thing we share is the joint account and that will be rectified today. There are no joint credit cards, loans, etc. with the exception of this house.
Advice for your next relationship. I'm interracial and there's an old popular R&B song that has the main lyrics "Ain't nuthin goin on but the rent. You've got to have a J-O-B, if you want to be with me..." The whole song is pretty funny. You might want to download it. At least you can have a good laugh.
Best wishes to you and your children...it will definitely get better soon.
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