NEW STUFF: Help for response.
Regarding the issue before (sitter vs. time on weeknight)
Her note: (actual words)
To be straight, she let me pick up D4 an hour early on March Break and Easter. From what I've heard, I should have at least got a day or two .. in the least.
Also, is she not changing her routine by wanting her on Wednesdays now (as Rioe stated)? Im off work in 3 weeks.
I now see her position in court regarding holiday access. I would give her anything she wants on holiday access. Im very reasonable.
Also...Im not "playing nice" as she is. I am genuinely nice.
Things seem to be falling apart with everything. Yikes!
It's going to be a hot summer.
Regarding the issue before (sitter vs. time on weeknight)
Her note: (actual words)
As for Wednesdays, there is no point in continuing going back and forth about it. I would rather her be with me instead of a sitter but I don't think another change in her routine is in her best interests. I know we don't see it the same way but this is just like all our issues. You say you want to co-parent and cooperate with me in a positive fashion but this is only true when you get something from the situation.
I have tried to play nice on several occasions by giving you additional time on holiday weekends, March break and have asked for nothing in return when holidays/special events have occurred on your time. I have no obligation to give you any of these things as it has not been settled as of yet but I still do as I think D4 deserves to share these times with both of us. It's unfortunate that you don't seem to reciprocate this feeling.
D4 came home exhausted as always.
I have tried to play nice on several occasions by giving you additional time on holiday weekends, March break and have asked for nothing in return when holidays/special events have occurred on your time. I have no obligation to give you any of these things as it has not been settled as of yet but I still do as I think D4 deserves to share these times with both of us. It's unfortunate that you don't seem to reciprocate this feeling.
D4 came home exhausted as always.
Also, is she not changing her routine by wanting her on Wednesdays now (as Rioe stated)? Im off work in 3 weeks.
I now see her position in court regarding holiday access. I would give her anything she wants on holiday access. Im very reasonable.
Also...Im not "playing nice" as she is. I am genuinely nice.
Things seem to be falling apart with everything. Yikes!
It's going to be a hot summer.
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