Just separated after of several months of limping along. Sitch W 42 me 44 3boys 12,10,8. Married 8 years, together 12
We have a nesting custody arrangement - kids stay in house and parent take weekly turns living at house.50-50 access custody. Any one with experience with this? Have read of some working. We have rented an apartment and will take turns at that as well.
No Separation agreement yet - verbally agreed to nesting arrangement, and equalizing net incomes to equally split common expenses 50/50, and all child related expenses. W will pay me each month as is larger income. Have looked at cs tables and approximates the grid difference for incomes. If we get a separation agreement will this agreement have to be based on the cs and ss tables or can we mutually decide as we have done so far??
W has summers off and will have access to kids most of summer while I am at work. Does this effect 50/50 access %age calculation, if arrangement gets tense.
Wife has defined govt pension - teacher. Any experience in getting value of this, as well as a eligible retiring gratuity based on accumulated sick days, for equalization payment? Cost of an actuary to do this?
Is house valued at separation date, or date of sale, if on spouse buys out other?
SJC
We have a nesting custody arrangement - kids stay in house and parent take weekly turns living at house.50-50 access custody. Any one with experience with this? Have read of some working. We have rented an apartment and will take turns at that as well.
No Separation agreement yet - verbally agreed to nesting arrangement, and equalizing net incomes to equally split common expenses 50/50, and all child related expenses. W will pay me each month as is larger income. Have looked at cs tables and approximates the grid difference for incomes. If we get a separation agreement will this agreement have to be based on the cs and ss tables or can we mutually decide as we have done so far??
W has summers off and will have access to kids most of summer while I am at work. Does this effect 50/50 access %age calculation, if arrangement gets tense.
Wife has defined govt pension - teacher. Any experience in getting value of this, as well as a eligible retiring gratuity based on accumulated sick days, for equalization payment? Cost of an actuary to do this?
Is house valued at separation date, or date of sale, if on spouse buys out other?
SJC
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