I have a interem order for primary care and control of my 8 year old daughter. Her mother moved 3.5 hours away couple years ago, on average will see the daughter an overnighter every 3 months, lately the childs grandma will take the kid for a week or weekend and keep her up until 2am and the mother will maybe have a quick visit. The grandma is a very bad influence on the child. The Grandma is convincing the ex to be nasty now and is making things difficult because she is just a crazy woman. She is getting the 8yr old daughters uncle to try and get her as well, who usually has no involvement in her life.
We do not have a seperation agreement, no support payments are being made at all yet.
I meet half way for child exchange, even though she moved, now she says she lives farther and wants me to have an extra hours driving.
Should I just give in to her demands as usual and let it all go?
Should I start child support order and work on a seperation agreement with her or go straight to the lawyer?
She is very stubborn, the ex would not even show up in court before and refused mediation outright.
Without doing a full agreement, is it possible to do a partial seperation agreement just for child support and visitation arrangments/agreements.
I have a feeling its going to get worse in terms of the ex and her mom just from what I saw when they left their ex's while I was with her.
Do I have any rights in terms of my shared custody and primary care and control order? Can the ex say f u I am keeping her here for another week, and I can't do a thing? She keeps threatening me with the fact she has shared custody and I can go f myself, so I just give in and keep letting her bully me as its not worth the fight, I just don't want to set too many precidents for her to automatically just have when and if court and or an agreement comes.
Does primary care and control mean I can force her to hand over the kid or would I need a court agreement showing its my time etc....
I would like to go for child support without paying a lawyer to do it properly, is it pretty straight forward, and is a seperation agreement needed for asking for the child support? She says if I do that she is going after spousal and backpay. HeH.
Any info is appreciated, sucks having to cancel doc appointments and making up missed martial arts classes all the time, not to mention its hard to make plans when they change them up whenever they like in terms of visitation.
We do not have a seperation agreement, no support payments are being made at all yet.
I meet half way for child exchange, even though she moved, now she says she lives farther and wants me to have an extra hours driving.
Should I just give in to her demands as usual and let it all go?
Should I start child support order and work on a seperation agreement with her or go straight to the lawyer?
She is very stubborn, the ex would not even show up in court before and refused mediation outright.
Without doing a full agreement, is it possible to do a partial seperation agreement just for child support and visitation arrangments/agreements.
I have a feeling its going to get worse in terms of the ex and her mom just from what I saw when they left their ex's while I was with her.
Do I have any rights in terms of my shared custody and primary care and control order? Can the ex say f u I am keeping her here for another week, and I can't do a thing? She keeps threatening me with the fact she has shared custody and I can go f myself, so I just give in and keep letting her bully me as its not worth the fight, I just don't want to set too many precidents for her to automatically just have when and if court and or an agreement comes.
Does primary care and control mean I can force her to hand over the kid or would I need a court agreement showing its my time etc....
I would like to go for child support without paying a lawyer to do it properly, is it pretty straight forward, and is a seperation agreement needed for asking for the child support? She says if I do that she is going after spousal and backpay. HeH.
Any info is appreciated, sucks having to cancel doc appointments and making up missed martial arts classes all the time, not to mention its hard to make plans when they change them up whenever they like in terms of visitation.
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