Okay, for those of you brand new and you have a few years of free time to read, here's my initial thread: http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f4/i-need-see-my-daughter-17407/index115.html#post174461
Brief recap:
I have still not received the results of the hair follicle drug and alcohol test you claim to have performed, nor have you presented any evidence that you do not have the anger management issues which have caused you to shout obscenities at Ms. ______.
Ms. _____ proposes that your access to _____ be on Thursdays from 2-3 p.m. as supervised by _____. If you would prefer a different time on Thursday, please let me know.
Yours sincerely,
I replied:
Thank you for your e-mail. This is to confirm Thursday's visit with ______ 12-3, supervised by ______.
I anticipate your affidavit of documents by tomorrow as this is the deadline pursuant to Rule 19 (requested on June 11th).
Thank you,
Clean police record (including DUI's, assaults, etc), no restraining order, no charges, clean drug tests, no domestic visits by police ever. Ive only seen my child a handful of hours in 5 months. Im preparing my motion on. I have the dates to offer him. First step - get status of OCL to attach to affidavit, offer dates and get this moving.
Note this new e-mail limits me to 1 hour now. Just to ruffle my tail feathers I assume I believe I answered it nicely using all the advice of this great forum. Kept it short, ignored the "sparring session he wanted".
Here comes the new chapter
I request any help, advice, anything to help me reach my goal of 50/50.
Brief recap:
- Came home from work, ex gone with child. Called police, no help
- Retained lawyer, "Applied for Access/Custody". Lawyer took a LOT of money and refused to go for EM. I began self-repping.
- Ex reply littered with false accusations that Ive been disproving one by one (drugs, alcohol, DV).
- EM: Endorsements: a)early CC ; b)Offers of access before CC.
- CC: Endorsements: a)Supervised access even though not needed (no time given, etc given), b)Questioning, c)OCL d)Financial stuff. Ex asked for hair follicle. Judge rejected. I got one anyways ..clean.
- Ex giving 3 hrs/week supervised. Denying any and all else.
- Ex denying disclosure (Rule 19/Form 20), exchange of parenting plans, review of separation agreement, ourfamilywizard.com, mediation, telephone with D3, Health info on D3, etc.
- Deciding about motion now. Got yet another free consult today at FLIC and she told me to call OCL tomorrow and request the status of my application. (Are they taking it? How long?, etc). Lawyer said ex's lawyer is waiting for motion so that he can get costs by saying waiting for OCL. She told me to have the OCL status attached to an affidavit and bring a motion saying "I've made an effort with OCL to see if we've been accepted by them and how long it would take.
- I received another e-mail today from ex's lawyer. Apparently I've solved the drug/alcohol false allegations, because today I got this:
I have still not received the results of the hair follicle drug and alcohol test you claim to have performed, nor have you presented any evidence that you do not have the anger management issues which have caused you to shout obscenities at Ms. ______.
Ms. _____ proposes that your access to _____ be on Thursdays from 2-3 p.m. as supervised by _____. If you would prefer a different time on Thursday, please let me know.
Yours sincerely,
I replied:
Thank you for your e-mail. This is to confirm Thursday's visit with ______ 12-3, supervised by ______.
I anticipate your affidavit of documents by tomorrow as this is the deadline pursuant to Rule 19 (requested on June 11th).
Thank you,
Clean police record (including DUI's, assaults, etc), no restraining order, no charges, clean drug tests, no domestic visits by police ever. Ive only seen my child a handful of hours in 5 months. Im preparing my motion on. I have the dates to offer him. First step - get status of OCL to attach to affidavit, offer dates and get this moving.
Note this new e-mail limits me to 1 hour now. Just to ruffle my tail feathers I assume I believe I answered it nicely using all the advice of this great forum. Kept it short, ignored the "sparring session he wanted".
Here comes the new chapter
I request any help, advice, anything to help me reach my goal of 50/50.
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