Ok I admit that with all the BS, lies, arrest, more lies and well I just put into my head that if I never? Then I think one day, far far away we can actually come to adult terms with whatever is decided one way or another and actually stop the - stop all of it. Then again there is a pattern that perhaps the experience of a few people who may just say that in judging what really is a one sided description (mine) of "the BS" over the last 18 months - FRO is the way to leave it. I was told today I need to decide tomorrow (been two weeks since the motion for SS.
Now the court is doing the FRO route automatically. Naturally my ex is pleading for me to accept post date checks (something, for very practical reasons, I do not really like - am I right in understanding that the FRO will do the electronic deposits fairly regular once it is going??? This I assume that the payor is regular. If I should be lucky in terms of yearly updates etc., and unlike a few people here, who end up in court over and over for this -- I am getting to far ahead I know.
So today it is, To FRO or not to FRO that is today's delemma.
Now the court is doing the FRO route automatically. Naturally my ex is pleading for me to accept post date checks (something, for very practical reasons, I do not really like - am I right in understanding that the FRO will do the electronic deposits fairly regular once it is going??? This I assume that the payor is regular. If I should be lucky in terms of yearly updates etc., and unlike a few people here, who end up in court over and over for this -- I am getting to far ahead I know.
So today it is, To FRO or not to FRO that is today's delemma.
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