Support and maintainence payments are definitely exempt from bankruptcy. Even if he wipes his debts, these payments will still be based on his income. As far as the equalization payment, I recommend that you ask your lawyer (if you have one), AND call a bankruptcy trustee. They are usually quite willing to answer these questions. I know a good one if you can't find one where you are (might be a long distance call though).
Keep in mind also that when anyone files for CS, Spousal support, and equalization, both parties must file financial statements. These could be used to prove whether his bankruptcy claim is valid or not.
On a more personal note, I find it interesting that all your responses, before mine, were from men (I assume so from the screen names). In some cases they were quite nasty, gentlemen. While I am the first to admit that the men go through a lot of bs in a divorce, the fact is that she is simply looking for some answers and support, just as you are. We do not know all the facts of the situation.
I am in the unique position of trying to help a man through his divorce, and I can fully understand the issues you gentlemen are facing. But I think the whole point of this forum is to help provide support to anyone going through this.
We ALL tend to spout off a bit when we can do it anonymously (isn't that the point?), so cut the other person a break. We're all going through hell, and we all have different situations. Seems to me some tolerance is in order.
I know what you're all thinking...what does she know. Well I have been through a divorce, and I am now seeing it from both sides. Take a step back and understand that we are all going through our private hell.
Sorry for the lecture, but perhaps now we can help each other find answers and help each other through this crap.
Keep in mind also that when anyone files for CS, Spousal support, and equalization, both parties must file financial statements. These could be used to prove whether his bankruptcy claim is valid or not.
On a more personal note, I find it interesting that all your responses, before mine, were from men (I assume so from the screen names). In some cases they were quite nasty, gentlemen. While I am the first to admit that the men go through a lot of bs in a divorce, the fact is that she is simply looking for some answers and support, just as you are. We do not know all the facts of the situation.
I am in the unique position of trying to help a man through his divorce, and I can fully understand the issues you gentlemen are facing. But I think the whole point of this forum is to help provide support to anyone going through this.
We ALL tend to spout off a bit when we can do it anonymously (isn't that the point?), so cut the other person a break. We're all going through hell, and we all have different situations. Seems to me some tolerance is in order.
I know what you're all thinking...what does she know. Well I have been through a divorce, and I am now seeing it from both sides. Take a step back and understand that we are all going through our private hell.
Sorry for the lecture, but perhaps now we can help each other find answers and help each other through this crap.
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