Hi
Im male 33 years old married for about 9 years but been together 18 years since after i left school
Before i got married and had 2 children she had an affair with someone from work - i found out and it broke my heart but after a few months seperated i went to work abroad and kept in contact , we decided we could work things out and did untill recently i found out she has been having another affair with someone at different work for probably about 2 years
same story different bloke - i think she has feelings for this person but has told me she wants to break it off and try again with me
I have agreed provisionally because i dont want to make any knee jerk decisions as my children are involved and i would sacrife anything for them
i would live in the same house as this horrible heartless women but i cant look at her any more , she makes me feel sick
I found this out from my 8 year old daughter , she told me that moms work mate took them to the cinema - and my son told me that she met at a park next to his nursery ???
Im sickened that while i was out working my hardest to put a roof over our heads she done this to me - I love my children and its makes me feel heartbroken that this guy had been around them like this
I dont neglect my children , i spend as much time as possible with them and take them out places all the time - so why would she do this ?
My only assumtion is that she has a mental problem
Ok do i try to keep my marriage for the sake of the kids knowing that she will let me down again or do i walk away and start a new life ?
my head is shot - any advice or or personal experiences would be appreciated
Im male 33 years old married for about 9 years but been together 18 years since after i left school
Before i got married and had 2 children she had an affair with someone from work - i found out and it broke my heart but after a few months seperated i went to work abroad and kept in contact , we decided we could work things out and did untill recently i found out she has been having another affair with someone at different work for probably about 2 years
same story different bloke - i think she has feelings for this person but has told me she wants to break it off and try again with me
I have agreed provisionally because i dont want to make any knee jerk decisions as my children are involved and i would sacrife anything for them
i would live in the same house as this horrible heartless women but i cant look at her any more , she makes me feel sick
I found this out from my 8 year old daughter , she told me that moms work mate took them to the cinema - and my son told me that she met at a park next to his nursery ???
Im sickened that while i was out working my hardest to put a roof over our heads she done this to me - I love my children and its makes me feel heartbroken that this guy had been around them like this
I dont neglect my children , i spend as much time as possible with them and take them out places all the time - so why would she do this ?
My only assumtion is that she has a mental problem
Ok do i try to keep my marriage for the sake of the kids knowing that she will let me down again or do i walk away and start a new life ?
my head is shot - any advice or or personal experiences would be appreciated
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