I need to know what I can legaly do to help out my kids.
My son is almost 12 and my daughter 9. They have told my self and my sitter who has babysat my kids for 4 years now and is still good friends with my ex, that they don't feel comfortable at their moms place. My daughter hasn,t slept in her room since they moved out, she sleeps with her mom so does my son. They have no friends because they live in the middle of nowhere. The only time they see their friends is when they come over every second weekend ( custody is still not resolved ). She doesn't take them anywhere but her best friend's house and they are sick and tired of been there all the time. She can't be bougthered to bring them to their activities. She keeps telling them to ask me, don't get me wrong I get to see them more often that way witch is fine with me. They are just not happy and they keep asking me why they can't see me 50/50. All I can tell them is that they need to be patient and Daddy is working on it.
I need to know if there is anything legaly I can do other than wait.Other than CAS( CAS keep telling my ex to do things diffrently and are helping her greatly but she just laugh in their face and all they tell me is they tend not to get involved in custody dispute) is there anyone my kids could speak to that would hold legaly in court? My lawyer sent another custody request but haven,t heard from her lawyer in a month. I have my kids on audio saying things regarding her best friends relationship with her boyfriend that kids shouldn't hear and a mirade of other audio that makes me frustraded that she would upset the kids
At first thought it was just kids trying to get more attention from me to see what they could get. But my sitter has brought up things that made me realise that they were very seriouse. I have keept logs from day one of everything that is said between me and the kids and their mom. Is there anything I can do to speed up the process without costing me an arm and a leg. My cash flow is extremely limited because of the interim custody agreement we have in place. I feel absolutly powerless to help them in their time of need.
Please scared1. I do not want your opinion as I strongly beleive you are letting emotions not comon sense dictate your opinions and the way you handle your situation.
thanks and Merry Christmas
My son is almost 12 and my daughter 9. They have told my self and my sitter who has babysat my kids for 4 years now and is still good friends with my ex, that they don't feel comfortable at their moms place. My daughter hasn,t slept in her room since they moved out, she sleeps with her mom so does my son. They have no friends because they live in the middle of nowhere. The only time they see their friends is when they come over every second weekend ( custody is still not resolved ). She doesn't take them anywhere but her best friend's house and they are sick and tired of been there all the time. She can't be bougthered to bring them to their activities. She keeps telling them to ask me, don't get me wrong I get to see them more often that way witch is fine with me. They are just not happy and they keep asking me why they can't see me 50/50. All I can tell them is that they need to be patient and Daddy is working on it.
I need to know if there is anything legaly I can do other than wait.Other than CAS( CAS keep telling my ex to do things diffrently and are helping her greatly but she just laugh in their face and all they tell me is they tend not to get involved in custody dispute) is there anyone my kids could speak to that would hold legaly in court? My lawyer sent another custody request but haven,t heard from her lawyer in a month. I have my kids on audio saying things regarding her best friends relationship with her boyfriend that kids shouldn't hear and a mirade of other audio that makes me frustraded that she would upset the kids
At first thought it was just kids trying to get more attention from me to see what they could get. But my sitter has brought up things that made me realise that they were very seriouse. I have keept logs from day one of everything that is said between me and the kids and their mom. Is there anything I can do to speed up the process without costing me an arm and a leg. My cash flow is extremely limited because of the interim custody agreement we have in place. I feel absolutly powerless to help them in their time of need.
Please scared1. I do not want your opinion as I strongly beleive you are letting emotions not comon sense dictate your opinions and the way you handle your situation.
thanks and Merry Christmas
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