So does anyone know of a book, tape, yoga pose, alcohol that helps second partners handle watching their partner deal with the bs from their ex and/or kids?
The last two months I've watched my partner get shit on by his ex wife and 19 yo. Tonight I got angry at his "i cant lose my kid" excuse for allowing her to dictate how he will do something. Its unreasonable and its been a month-long pattern now where she demands, he stands firm, she stops speaking to him, he grovels, lather rinse repeat.
My tongue is sore from biting it. I finally got mad at his attitude. Its ok for the kids to control him? If he was still married would it be ok?
Im so frustrated. And now feeling petty myself. As in "fine, you have this messed up relationship but don't expect me to follow this dictation. Shes not the boss of me."
The last two months I've watched my partner get shit on by his ex wife and 19 yo. Tonight I got angry at his "i cant lose my kid" excuse for allowing her to dictate how he will do something. Its unreasonable and its been a month-long pattern now where she demands, he stands firm, she stops speaking to him, he grovels, lather rinse repeat.
My tongue is sore from biting it. I finally got mad at his attitude. Its ok for the kids to control him? If he was still married would it be ok?
Im so frustrated. And now feeling petty myself. As in "fine, you have this messed up relationship but don't expect me to follow this dictation. Shes not the boss of me."
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