I have been separated for almost two years. When I saw duty counsel they suggested that I indicate "adultery" or "abuse" as the reason for the abuse. They said I had more than ample ground to claim either. Some problems.
I was under the impression you claim these things if you want a quick divorce, provided they actually happened. DC said yes but it is wise to claim it in case things go side ways. It seems to me it will only cause me more grief. I want to get on with things.
My only witness to the adultery is a teen child of a friend. They did not see intercourse but rather foreplay. There are other witnesses but they are under 8 years of age. What do you need to prove it?
The abuse relates to the number of criminal accusations she has made against me and people close to me. She recanted all them when I went to the police. One of supporters actually got charged for threatening to kill her.
Even if I do not claim either DC pointed out there was a lot if financial abuse that would result in criminal charges had it occured outside a marriage. She used a different term to describe how my wife emptied the accounts and moved money around. She figured at least $14k is missing if our pensions are not included. If pensions are included it would be worth another $10-15k for me. My wife has done everything to make sure I have as little cash as possible. This all on top of the $10k she took from our kids.
We have a final custody order in place. I just want walk from it all (the divorce issues)but the DC said it will come back to haunt me.
I was under the impression you claim these things if you want a quick divorce, provided they actually happened. DC said yes but it is wise to claim it in case things go side ways. It seems to me it will only cause me more grief. I want to get on with things.
My only witness to the adultery is a teen child of a friend. They did not see intercourse but rather foreplay. There are other witnesses but they are under 8 years of age. What do you need to prove it?
The abuse relates to the number of criminal accusations she has made against me and people close to me. She recanted all them when I went to the police. One of supporters actually got charged for threatening to kill her.
Even if I do not claim either DC pointed out there was a lot if financial abuse that would result in criminal charges had it occured outside a marriage. She used a different term to describe how my wife emptied the accounts and moved money around. She figured at least $14k is missing if our pensions are not included. If pensions are included it would be worth another $10-15k for me. My wife has done everything to make sure I have as little cash as possible. This all on top of the $10k she took from our kids.
We have a final custody order in place. I just want walk from it all (the divorce issues)but the DC said it will come back to haunt me.
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