Hi:
I am 45 years old and have been married for 28 years. We have two children 23 and 28. I'll always be grateful for the time I had with my kids while they were growing up. That was the good part; the rest of the marriage has been ups and downs. Now that the kids are raised there is not reason for us to stay together. We have separated rooms. I am equally responsible for the unhappiness because I had an affair years ago and she has gambling problems and we don’t have any money and we have a lot of debts. We have jobs but I earned more than her, but we barely pay our debts every moth. We are thinking also to declare bankrupt. I can’t afford to rent my own place, we talk about separation and she threats me about spousal support, I had no idea that I have to pay spousal support. I don't know where to start. Thanks in advance for any advice. Please help
I am 45 years old and have been married for 28 years. We have two children 23 and 28. I'll always be grateful for the time I had with my kids while they were growing up. That was the good part; the rest of the marriage has been ups and downs. Now that the kids are raised there is not reason for us to stay together. We have separated rooms. I am equally responsible for the unhappiness because I had an affair years ago and she has gambling problems and we don’t have any money and we have a lot of debts. We have jobs but I earned more than her, but we barely pay our debts every moth. We are thinking also to declare bankrupt. I can’t afford to rent my own place, we talk about separation and she threats me about spousal support, I had no idea that I have to pay spousal support. I don't know where to start. Thanks in advance for any advice. Please help
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