My ex sponsored me as common-law wife together with my 5 kids here in Canada, 5 years ago. He is a corporate lawyer[ I didn't know from the start that he's a lawyer not until, he told me that he's going to sponsor all of us. We are very much in love with each other. We don't have any problems with my kids. They loved him and vice versa. But his eldest son [he has 2 kids]a very big guy at the age of 27, weigh more than 200lbs., 6'2 ft., tall, doing nothing but watch me if I'm gonna make mistakes. his father is asking to go to school or find a job, but he ignored it. Before we came here, his father told me that everything is gonna be alright, that his son is okay with our idea. We lived together and known each other 3 years before we decided to get my kids and permanently live with them. His daughter is living with his ex-wife because she doesn't wanna stay and be together with her brother. They're always fighting. We live together for 2years and 11 months[ actually 3 years but 1 month before becoming 3 years, we're sleeping in separate bedroom]. By then, I didn't know anything about the law, Those years have been like a hell for us. Always problems, which is always coming from his son. He even write us an eviction letter forcing us to leave soon. I don't know anything about Canada, Anything! And it's been hard for me to step forward because I'm very confused and scared on what's the first thing to do. By the way, he signed in his oath-taking, that he's gonna be responsible for us for 10 years.
It's been 5 years now, and I'm in school, my kids are still with me. I need to sign another contract of lease, but at first he refused to give us anymore his support. But later he said that only up to August of next year, and then he will stop. I'm thinking that what if I can't still make it by myself? Can I appeal, that he should finished the 10 years? I'm thankful because until now he's doing his responsibility, but I'm not ready yet. I'm just starting to build a new life of my own. He said that we're not a common-law because we didn't reach 3 years? is that true?
It's been 5 years now, and I'm in school, my kids are still with me. I need to sign another contract of lease, but at first he refused to give us anymore his support. But later he said that only up to August of next year, and then he will stop. I'm thinking that what if I can't still make it by myself? Can I appeal, that he should finished the 10 years? I'm thankful because until now he's doing his responsibility, but I'm not ready yet. I'm just starting to build a new life of my own. He said that we're not a common-law because we didn't reach 3 years? is that true?
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