Well a step forward to get back to where I was I guess... after the 4 hour 4 way meeting my overnights are back in place. (within a month both overnights).
The only forseen problem is that she still wasn't willing to agree to joint custody and it's in the temp agreement that my girlfriend can't stay over at all until my daughter doesn't co-sleep. (which is fine to a point). Then basically we have to goto seperation counselling to aide us in joint parenting and to address certain issues for now and establish a 'mediator/psychologist' to aide us in future disagreements. So I'm wishful thinking that this is a positive movement, but at the same time I'm pestimistic that it's just another delay - although by agreeing to no g/f overnights at least my daughter's time with me is not jepordized while we get over these hurdles and it won't be another issue to resolve.
So one down ... how many to go...
The only forseen problem is that she still wasn't willing to agree to joint custody and it's in the temp agreement that my girlfriend can't stay over at all until my daughter doesn't co-sleep. (which is fine to a point). Then basically we have to goto seperation counselling to aide us in joint parenting and to address certain issues for now and establish a 'mediator/psychologist' to aide us in future disagreements. So I'm wishful thinking that this is a positive movement, but at the same time I'm pestimistic that it's just another delay - although by agreeing to no g/f overnights at least my daughter's time with me is not jepordized while we get over these hurdles and it won't be another issue to resolve.
So one down ... how many to go...
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