Our toddler is mostly with me even though the agreement is 50/50. The mom calls 1 or 2 times a week.
When he is with her for 1-3 days i call every day to see how is he. (I write down everything though but I call him because I care)
My parents tell me not to call as often because she doesn't call either.
The child currently prefers to stay with the mom as I mentioned in another post.
But I always talk nice to him about his mom. For her birthday I bought her some flowers and made a letter with our son's photo and said this is to you from our son. Just to keep parenting better.
She never even called me on my B-day.
I am thinking not to call when the child is there to minimize my contact with them because that's what they obviously want.
Again, my son even rarely wants to talks on the phone with me because he is nearly 70% of the time with me and is scared I would pick him up, because probably feels as he needs to spend more time with the mom (and his cousin of same age) and that kills my moral to call daily.
In our minutes of settlement I am allowed to call any time I want when the child is there, so is she, except she doesn't.
Should I cut my calls too?
When he is with her for 1-3 days i call every day to see how is he. (I write down everything though but I call him because I care)
My parents tell me not to call as often because she doesn't call either.
The child currently prefers to stay with the mom as I mentioned in another post.
But I always talk nice to him about his mom. For her birthday I bought her some flowers and made a letter with our son's photo and said this is to you from our son. Just to keep parenting better.
She never even called me on my B-day.
I am thinking not to call when the child is there to minimize my contact with them because that's what they obviously want.
Again, my son even rarely wants to talks on the phone with me because he is nearly 70% of the time with me and is scared I would pick him up, because probably feels as he needs to spend more time with the mom (and his cousin of same age) and that kills my moral to call daily.
In our minutes of settlement I am allowed to call any time I want when the child is there, so is she, except she doesn't.
Should I cut my calls too?
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