Why is it the small things that get to me - maybe this isn't so small? I can live with all the crap and behind the back crap that (the other one!) is tryin all so hard to rock my boat and well for me it is just another exercise in trouble shooting another problem. Stbx should have figured out by now that that is WHAT I was paid for, paid well actually - to solve problems and I am better at solving them than stbx is at making them. Ok - so far and I can only hope it stays that way - can't worry my head off. Just need to be.......
So what is getting to me? Tonight, my son offered to fire up the BBQ to cook up 4 of those cheese sausage things they like (sorry folks I really do not like and never will like cheese!) but there were 5 adults here. It really hurt that he would just look me over like that - he is 20 so it is not that he wasn't old enough to think, be considerate???? Maybe it is a guy thing (I, him and the three gals all these years). I can live with the stbx and her pushing (and advertising to everyone how she is proud to take a 5 piece of something out of the freezer and "hide the 5th at the bottom of the freezer - we are seperated afterall. But hard day or not - tonight hurt.
So what is getting to me? Tonight, my son offered to fire up the BBQ to cook up 4 of those cheese sausage things they like (sorry folks I really do not like and never will like cheese!) but there were 5 adults here. It really hurt that he would just look me over like that - he is 20 so it is not that he wasn't old enough to think, be considerate???? Maybe it is a guy thing (I, him and the three gals all these years). I can live with the stbx and her pushing (and advertising to everyone how she is proud to take a 5 piece of something out of the freezer and "hide the 5th at the bottom of the freezer - we are seperated afterall. But hard day or not - tonight hurt.
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