The KEY is being settled....the other KEY is living close...The sad part about the PROCESS is it expects the separated parent to build up what 2 parents did over years!
IF you live close it offsets the "parenting plan" because any school or childs activity they have with ex you'll do....no change
It's also least disruptive to kids for drive/pickups
Nothing wrong with being a self rep it'll save money for renting a house or 3 bedroom condo near your kids. Try not to lose the shared custody or split custody.
If you give in too sole custody...it's never going to change and if she hates you your kids are never going to visit family in the States without a major Court battle
keep chatting through the CC agree to nothing but 50-50 and postion yourself well the process drags on to PROVE 50-50 is absolutely 100 percent do-able and get somebody to to watch kids (just like your ex) to watch the kids when you go to work.
there's gonna be a snow storm of people telling you to give up...ignore them
IF you live close it offsets the "parenting plan" because any school or childs activity they have with ex you'll do....no change
It's also least disruptive to kids for drive/pickups
Nothing wrong with being a self rep it'll save money for renting a house or 3 bedroom condo near your kids. Try not to lose the shared custody or split custody.
If you give in too sole custody...it's never going to change and if she hates you your kids are never going to visit family in the States without a major Court battle
keep chatting through the CC agree to nothing but 50-50 and postion yourself well the process drags on to PROVE 50-50 is absolutely 100 percent do-able and get somebody to to watch kids (just like your ex) to watch the kids when you go to work.
there's gonna be a snow storm of people telling you to give up...ignore them
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