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Old 04-06-2018, 09:27 PM
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I have to say that I am different now since coming to this site about a year and a half ago. I was of that same mindset - defend, lash out, email constantly, always to justify and defend my good name. I couldnít stand the thought of lies being written about me. (I couldnít stand it on this forum either - haha). But life is so much better now that I constantly ignore. I actually notice the physiological effects of stress going away. It has been infinitely freeing to have made the pact with myself to not respond to the bullshit and only respond about business. Itís infuriating for my ex because heís not getting the reactions and drama he wants - but too bad for him. Better to invest your energy into the positives in your life.


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