Hi. I'm new to this forum and its the first time I'm actually seeking help outside my family. My common law wife recently asked me to leave after a six year relationship. She has two older boys from two prior relationships. One of 9 and the other is 13. We have a 4 year old daughter and twin 2 year old boys.
The reason she asked me to leave is because she fell out of love with me. Fine.
I left with a pack sack over my shoulder and nothing else. I'm living at my mothers for now. She has the car because its hers.
Now here is my issue. I'm asked to pay $940.00 / month plus life insurance. Witch is almost half my salary and I just took my clothes, an old spare computer and a monitor out of the house. I get the kids every two weekends and I visit Tuesdays and Thursdays.
I want to be able to afford a place to welcome my kids in. But the way its going I can only afford a room somewhere or live with a roomate. Not good. I asked her if I could get shared custody but she refuses because of her dept load. I just want to raise my kids I love them so much. She wants them because they are worth money. I'm stuck because I can't afford a place to have them all.
Is there anyone who can help or give me advice? If you want more details I would be glad to awnser all your questions.
thank you
A loving father
The reason she asked me to leave is because she fell out of love with me. Fine.
I left with a pack sack over my shoulder and nothing else. I'm living at my mothers for now. She has the car because its hers.
Now here is my issue. I'm asked to pay $940.00 / month plus life insurance. Witch is almost half my salary and I just took my clothes, an old spare computer and a monitor out of the house. I get the kids every two weekends and I visit Tuesdays and Thursdays.
I want to be able to afford a place to welcome my kids in. But the way its going I can only afford a room somewhere or live with a roomate. Not good. I asked her if I could get shared custody but she refuses because of her dept load. I just want to raise my kids I love them so much. She wants them because they are worth money. I'm stuck because I can't afford a place to have them all.
Is there anyone who can help or give me advice? If you want more details I would be glad to awnser all your questions.
thank you
A loving father
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