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Old 06-14-2011, 10:59 PM
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If he likes doing it this way to avoid conflict, it's up to him. His daughter, his ex. It's too bad the daughter has turned out this way, but from the sounds of the mother it was probably inevitable, unfortunately.

That said, I would definitely advise only paying the usual third, and making it clear that this will be the last program he funds. Whatever truck agreement was made between the ex and the other stepfather is nothing to do with your husband, and does not increase his obligation. He's got to develop a bit of a spine with regards to the ex and daughter, or they'll just keep her in college forever so he keeps paying CS endlessly.