Good Morning All,
So I have officially been served with the Motion to Change after I disagreed with the Ex and his New Wife’s email of demands!!!(YES I am happy about this)The whole thing is ridiculous, self centered and just searching for ways to reduce support, without taking into consideration what is best for the children.(in my opinion at least) As I will be self-representing, I have the tedious task of responding and ensuring all my “concerns” are also heard.Soooo here begins my quest for guidance and direction from my fellow filers!
The motion to change of the Final order is for reduction of CS in 3-5 different ways, change of location of meeting place, and clothing to be provided by me for the access weekends. I don’t feel that we need to change the Final Order as I think it is fair.Sure I could fight for more CS, quicker payments of S7’s, and consistence in timely payments of CS, but I didn’t feel that was enough to request a Change of Final Order.
I have been served Form 15, Form 15A, Form 13, and Form 13A.The attachments provided for Form 13 are incomplete, and is not up to date information. (This is the reason income was imputed last time we hit the courts)It states that he has included his most recent paystub.The pay stub included was dated for 01-16-15.It is now May?There are missing tax returns, only a page from the NOA, of 2 years….the return, or the NOA or even T4 for employment for the first 3 months of 2014 is not even included.
My questions are this.
I’m going to stop there with the questions…there will be more to come…but I don’t want to overwhelm myself with responses.Please feel free to be as critical or blunt as you feel necessary.I know I can be bullheaded at times, and need a reality check.I thank you all for your guidance and comments in advance.
Sorry for the long post……
So I have officially been served with the Motion to Change after I disagreed with the Ex and his New Wife’s email of demands!!!(YES I am happy about this)The whole thing is ridiculous, self centered and just searching for ways to reduce support, without taking into consideration what is best for the children.(in my opinion at least) As I will be self-representing, I have the tedious task of responding and ensuring all my “concerns” are also heard.Soooo here begins my quest for guidance and direction from my fellow filers!
The motion to change of the Final order is for reduction of CS in 3-5 different ways, change of location of meeting place, and clothing to be provided by me for the access weekends. I don’t feel that we need to change the Final Order as I think it is fair.Sure I could fight for more CS, quicker payments of S7’s, and consistence in timely payments of CS, but I didn’t feel that was enough to request a Change of Final Order.
I have been served Form 15, Form 15A, Form 13, and Form 13A.The attachments provided for Form 13 are incomplete, and is not up to date information. (This is the reason income was imputed last time we hit the courts)It states that he has included his most recent paystub.The pay stub included was dated for 01-16-15.It is now May?There are missing tax returns, only a page from the NOA, of 2 years….the return, or the NOA or even T4 for employment for the first 3 months of 2014 is not even included.
My questions are this.
- Can I or should I, file a Form 20 Request for Information (financial), and give EX 15 Days to respond to that request before I submit my response for MTC? If he doesn’t provide proper financials we will end up back in court…so should I request the information? Or should I let a judge tell him that his information is incomplete and wait for a new CC date?
- Since I am not requesting CS amount be changed, am I to still file a F13? I have no issues with doing so….just don’t wanna waste time if it’s not really needed.
I’m going to stop there with the questions…there will be more to come…but I don’t want to overwhelm myself with responses.Please feel free to be as critical or blunt as you feel necessary.I know I can be bullheaded at times, and need a reality check.I thank you all for your guidance and comments in advance.
Sorry for the long post……
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