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Old 01-15-2019, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by tunnelight View Post
I used to be able to. I'll have to get back into this vibe.
do you have the resources to maybe get some counselling? I'm not saying that because anything you say indicates to me that you're off the rails or *need* it...moreso I just find that it really helps to maintain your equilibrium with asshole exes.

I've learned a lot of coping mechanisms from my therapist.

One of the best things she ever said to me is that my ex is not going to change- and it's time to gear the fuck up to deal with his bullshit for the next 18 years or however long I have to co-parent our daughter. If I don't learn then I'm setting myself up to be upset on a daily basis.
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