Hi,
I have court on Monday for my ex stopping May and June child and spousal support cheques and to try and get an order for maintenance enforcement. I'm not trying to change any support amounts.
Thursday I received an email from ex saying my June cheques are down at his lawyers office. I went yesterday after work to get them and they served me with his affidavit. No May cheques and the June child support cheque had $40 taken off for 'fees'. Apparently the May cheques together with the $40 deduction from the June a as cheque pay him back in some way for these fees.
This affidavit is full of untruths. Almost every point which he makes is made up in some fashion or all together. And it contains many many separation topics.
We had an arbitration agreement in place since May 1 to cover all of these issues, but ex refused to pay his share of retainer until this Thursday when he filed this affidavit so one of his points is that there is no need to be in court. I had let the arbitrator know that I had to file withy the courts due to the stall in arbitration and the urgency of the topic.
I look at this as him trying to confuse my application to make the judge say, "I'm not dealing with this here". I was not going to file an affidavit in response to his affivadit, just be prepared if anything he mentioned is brought up. My ex did not make a counter claim for anything, to me it looks like proof that we are high conflict and NEED MEP to be the middleman to get some distance.
Opinions? After this court, our arbitration is now booked for mid September.
I have court on Monday for my ex stopping May and June child and spousal support cheques and to try and get an order for maintenance enforcement. I'm not trying to change any support amounts.
Thursday I received an email from ex saying my June cheques are down at his lawyers office. I went yesterday after work to get them and they served me with his affidavit. No May cheques and the June child support cheque had $40 taken off for 'fees'. Apparently the May cheques together with the $40 deduction from the June a as cheque pay him back in some way for these fees.
This affidavit is full of untruths. Almost every point which he makes is made up in some fashion or all together. And it contains many many separation topics.
We had an arbitration agreement in place since May 1 to cover all of these issues, but ex refused to pay his share of retainer until this Thursday when he filed this affidavit so one of his points is that there is no need to be in court. I had let the arbitrator know that I had to file withy the courts due to the stall in arbitration and the urgency of the topic.
I look at this as him trying to confuse my application to make the judge say, "I'm not dealing with this here". I was not going to file an affidavit in response to his affivadit, just be prepared if anything he mentioned is brought up. My ex did not make a counter claim for anything, to me it looks like proof that we are high conflict and NEED MEP to be the middleman to get some distance.
Opinions? After this court, our arbitration is now booked for mid September.
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