I am posting this private PM I received with permission from the sender who wishes to remain anonymous. Unfortunately, some of the female members feel under "attack" lately, and no longer want to post. I'm doing my best to correct this. Although a healthy debate is always welcome, some members are looking for a soft place to fall and I'm hoping to bring this back to the forums. Any advice/support you could give our friend would be greatly appreciated:
Hi Grace, this forum is so very fortunate to have you as a moderator!
I don't want to post my question as I'm too embarrassed!
I made many mistakes with my separation and divorce settlement. I was an emotional basket case to say the least! I just wanted my ex to go away...I agreed to everything he wanted. I still paid my lawyer an outrageous amount of money for NOT helping me.
I have agreed to file and pay for the divorce within six months. If I don't my ex can go after me for $1,000. My lawyer has held back $800.00 from the sale of the house to finalize ( affidavit ) the divorce. What would happen if I don't file...what would happen if I file on my own?
I feel so stupid....but at least the dysfunction is over.
Thank you Grace for listening...rather reading my silly message!
How on earth did you stay so strong...and or bounce back from your separation? If I remember correctly your ex is a "work of art" too.
Hi Grace, this forum is so very fortunate to have you as a moderator!
I don't want to post my question as I'm too embarrassed!
I made many mistakes with my separation and divorce settlement. I was an emotional basket case to say the least! I just wanted my ex to go away...I agreed to everything he wanted. I still paid my lawyer an outrageous amount of money for NOT helping me.
I have agreed to file and pay for the divorce within six months. If I don't my ex can go after me for $1,000. My lawyer has held back $800.00 from the sale of the house to finalize ( affidavit ) the divorce. What would happen if I don't file...what would happen if I file on my own?
I feel so stupid....but at least the dysfunction is over.
Thank you Grace for listening...rather reading my silly message!
How on earth did you stay so strong...and or bounce back from your separation? If I remember correctly your ex is a "work of art" too.
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