Maybe others can chime in regarding this - supervised access is something I know little about. So take my opinion with a grain of salt...
I think you need to communicate with her that you've asked him to keep away from you and he's agreed in writing but continues to ignore and do as he pleases. Email your request directly with her and see how she responds and if she follows through at the next exchange.
If he continues to have supervised access with the next order then you either know you have a supervisor in place that you can count on to limit potential for things to escalate or one that needs to be replaced.
She may not be a suitable supervisor if she can't make sure he remains in a neutral space while she does the pickup/dropoff with you.
You need to limit your communications with him - having a third party that has agreed to be neutral is a great benefit when you're dealing with high conflict.
I think you need to communicate with her that you've asked him to keep away from you and he's agreed in writing but continues to ignore and do as he pleases. Email your request directly with her and see how she responds and if she follows through at the next exchange.
If he continues to have supervised access with the next order then you either know you have a supervisor in place that you can count on to limit potential for things to escalate or one that needs to be replaced.
She may not be a suitable supervisor if she can't make sure he remains in a neutral space while she does the pickup/dropoff with you.
You need to limit your communications with him - having a third party that has agreed to be neutral is a great benefit when you're dealing with high conflict.
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