Hello guys,
I havent been here for a while but since the court order I now need to revisit a few things as my situation has changed. At the time of the order we had a 38/62 split with the girls. Now I am working Full time so it is 50/50. The agreement we made was based on a 50/50 scenerio, but I accepted less support as the CTB was high and I was trying to keep things amicable between the two of us. My new job pays far less, and my CTB is now less than half. Also, he never provided me with a notice of assessment in June like is stated in the order and I am positive he earned more than the $62000 he indicated at the time of settlement. Also, part of the agreement we made was based on him paying for school costs and sharing the clothing for the three girls. None of that has occurred. Every time I drop the girls off I get an email, outlining all the things that he doesnt like. Its degrading. Also, his gf, who I really do like, is stirring the pot, by asking (indirectly) if I would consider switching the schedule to a week on week off like she has, but being sure to mention that she hasnt mentioned any of this to my ex... ya right. She is the one that the girls are dropped off to in the am on his days, and she emails him immediately to inform him that the girls havent done their hair, or whatever, which results in these ridiculous emails. They are dropped off an hour before school so if they wanna do their hair at his house, what is the problem??? Anyway, I need to know what type of things I can include in the change as well as which forms I need etc...
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
Another question, can I file for divorce at the same time? If so how and what do I need for that??... thx
I havent been here for a while but since the court order I now need to revisit a few things as my situation has changed. At the time of the order we had a 38/62 split with the girls. Now I am working Full time so it is 50/50. The agreement we made was based on a 50/50 scenerio, but I accepted less support as the CTB was high and I was trying to keep things amicable between the two of us. My new job pays far less, and my CTB is now less than half. Also, he never provided me with a notice of assessment in June like is stated in the order and I am positive he earned more than the $62000 he indicated at the time of settlement. Also, part of the agreement we made was based on him paying for school costs and sharing the clothing for the three girls. None of that has occurred. Every time I drop the girls off I get an email, outlining all the things that he doesnt like. Its degrading. Also, his gf, who I really do like, is stirring the pot, by asking (indirectly) if I would consider switching the schedule to a week on week off like she has, but being sure to mention that she hasnt mentioned any of this to my ex... ya right. She is the one that the girls are dropped off to in the am on his days, and she emails him immediately to inform him that the girls havent done their hair, or whatever, which results in these ridiculous emails. They are dropped off an hour before school so if they wanna do their hair at his house, what is the problem??? Anyway, I need to know what type of things I can include in the change as well as which forms I need etc...
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
Another question, can I file for divorce at the same time? If so how and what do I need for that??... thx
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