She announced that she wanted a divorce 3 months ago because she doesn't love me. I don't feel the same way and for the past 3 months I have tried to show her through actions that I care. She refuses counseling and just wants out. Feels crazy to me that I have to surrender..
We agree to be amicable but I am finding it very difficult not to be angry at her. Not necessarily for drifting apart as we are both to blame. But for drifting so far that she won't consider dissecting what we have and seeing if there is hope. I try to suppress it and work on the agreement but see that being amicable is fragile yet we both agree that for the kids we must.
What is a path of greatest success for remaining amicable. Do we separately lawyer up? Find a mediator? Follow a guideline?
We agree to be amicable but I am finding it very difficult not to be angry at her. Not necessarily for drifting apart as we are both to blame. But for drifting so far that she won't consider dissecting what we have and seeing if there is hope. I try to suppress it and work on the agreement but see that being amicable is fragile yet we both agree that for the kids we must.
What is a path of greatest success for remaining amicable. Do we separately lawyer up? Find a mediator? Follow a guideline?
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