Some scenarios of divorcing couples leaves me stunned. I consider myself lucky that both of us aren't out to lunch. Anyway, I am posting for a friend his scenario.
Wife is underemployed, would rather workout and spend time with her new boyfriend. She lives off husband's low wages putting them in debt. They acknowledge marriage is over and she stays for financial reasons. They have children, one in grade 12 and one in second year of college. Wife leaves on friday and stays with boyfriend on weekends. This goes on for over a year. She finds works but once again quits for the easy life. Wife leaves for good moving in with boyfriend and they sort out financial issues. Husband takes all debt, pays her a lump sum of money plus money gives her a bit for the house which they had to remortgage to pay off her debt. It was his family home that was sold to them for a song from his mother. Less than market value. His early inheritance. She won a lawsuit for a car accident 6 years ago and even though they needed to pay off debt she kept the money secretly hidden and husband has no idea where it is or how much is left. Children stay with their dad because living with mom in her two bedroom apartment with her boyfriend is uncomfortable. So, fast forward a year and ex wife and boyfriend are breaking up. Husband has moved on, got a great new job making double what he did, new girlfriend and his self esteem is improved, life is good. His children are happy and he isn't the shell of a man he used to be with his wife slinking off every weekend to be with her bf. Out of the blue, ex wife tells him she and bf are breaking up and she now wants SS from him because he now has a good job. Is this woman out in left field or would family court entertain this bs? The ex wife says she was so injured in an accident years ago that she can't work. She has held jobs after, works out every day for hours on a competitor level (all on FB), yet claims bad back. How long must someone be responsible for another even after having another live in relationship? Sounds ludicrous but now he is waiting on a letter from her lawyer.
Wife is underemployed, would rather workout and spend time with her new boyfriend. She lives off husband's low wages putting them in debt. They acknowledge marriage is over and she stays for financial reasons. They have children, one in grade 12 and one in second year of college. Wife leaves on friday and stays with boyfriend on weekends. This goes on for over a year. She finds works but once again quits for the easy life. Wife leaves for good moving in with boyfriend and they sort out financial issues. Husband takes all debt, pays her a lump sum of money plus money gives her a bit for the house which they had to remortgage to pay off her debt. It was his family home that was sold to them for a song from his mother. Less than market value. His early inheritance. She won a lawsuit for a car accident 6 years ago and even though they needed to pay off debt she kept the money secretly hidden and husband has no idea where it is or how much is left. Children stay with their dad because living with mom in her two bedroom apartment with her boyfriend is uncomfortable. So, fast forward a year and ex wife and boyfriend are breaking up. Husband has moved on, got a great new job making double what he did, new girlfriend and his self esteem is improved, life is good. His children are happy and he isn't the shell of a man he used to be with his wife slinking off every weekend to be with her bf. Out of the blue, ex wife tells him she and bf are breaking up and she now wants SS from him because he now has a good job. Is this woman out in left field or would family court entertain this bs? The ex wife says she was so injured in an accident years ago that she can't work. She has held jobs after, works out every day for hours on a competitor level (all on FB), yet claims bad back. How long must someone be responsible for another even after having another live in relationship? Sounds ludicrous but now he is waiting on a letter from her lawyer.
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