Before my posts get confusing
My name - beentheredonethis...
I was divorced a few years back, it was messy in the sense that my EH was challenging, never showed up for court, never filed papers, didn't adhere to court orders...I ended up in an uncontested trial, obtaining sole custody of the children, and the ability to sell my home, and rental property without his input. He pays no child support, and was never ordered to do so.
I am back here again, as my new spouse is in court (self repping - we have not the money for a lawyer) with a rather bitter ex CL spouse who seems to be having trouble letting go of a few things (4 years after separation she wants spousal, sole custody (kids are older...like 17 almost 18) anyways. It's a drain.
Looking for bits of advice here and there as I learned a great deal during my case (and spent an insane amount of money in 11 months!), and trained as a law clerk, so understand the basic ins and outs of family law (and it would appear sometimes better than the ex CL's lawyer!).
So that's my intro
A lot of great advice on this forum!
My name - beentheredonethis...
I was divorced a few years back, it was messy in the sense that my EH was challenging, never showed up for court, never filed papers, didn't adhere to court orders...I ended up in an uncontested trial, obtaining sole custody of the children, and the ability to sell my home, and rental property without his input. He pays no child support, and was never ordered to do so.
I am back here again, as my new spouse is in court (self repping - we have not the money for a lawyer) with a rather bitter ex CL spouse who seems to be having trouble letting go of a few things (4 years after separation she wants spousal, sole custody (kids are older...like 17 almost 18) anyways. It's a drain.
Looking for bits of advice here and there as I learned a great deal during my case (and spent an insane amount of money in 11 months!), and trained as a law clerk, so understand the basic ins and outs of family law (and it would appear sometimes better than the ex CL's lawyer!).
So that's my intro
A lot of great advice on this forum!
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