Trying to hold down the panic.
Situation is challenging to say the least. I am the only one supporting the kids (whom ex has voluntarily decided not to see in almost a year). Once in awhile FRO collects CS.
Ex has taken all of marital cash assets (1 million) which he is hiding in a numbered company since separation. In addition he has a 6 figure personal injury settlement.
My work is part-time contract and extremely insecure. I have spent all my life savings RRSP's on legal fees to protect my children's safety. I can not afford to go to court ( which has been useless to date as nothing is settled, court only made things much much worse).
Ex is a multi-millionaire while the kids and I are living in hiding ( I don't want to go into details as to why). I am applying for full time jobs everywhere nearby. No luck so I am spirling my job search out, further and further away. At this point I will take any full time job anywhere in Canada. I have children who need to eat!
My questions are:
1. How would the court view my having to move far away in order to find a decent job to support my kids? Don't get me wrong...I realize that the judges presiding over my case think very highly of me by entrusting the care and welfare of my children cometely over to me but...the truth is I am NOT Jesus and can not turn a loaf of bread into twenty to feed my kids (I'm only human)
2. Will the court ever put a stop to it or do I have to take things into my own hands? ( Finding work elsewhere, moving, )
I feel so frustrated because I have the ability to climb out of this but every time I try the court allows my ex to shove me back down. Why does the court entrust me with the kids yet at the same time not allow me to take care of them by allowing my ex to destroy me? I don't get it!!!!
Bad enough my kids only have one active parent at present. It feels like the court's objective is to make orphans out of my kids!
Situation is challenging to say the least. I am the only one supporting the kids (whom ex has voluntarily decided not to see in almost a year). Once in awhile FRO collects CS.
Ex has taken all of marital cash assets (1 million) which he is hiding in a numbered company since separation. In addition he has a 6 figure personal injury settlement.
My work is part-time contract and extremely insecure. I have spent all my life savings RRSP's on legal fees to protect my children's safety. I can not afford to go to court ( which has been useless to date as nothing is settled, court only made things much much worse).
Ex is a multi-millionaire while the kids and I are living in hiding ( I don't want to go into details as to why). I am applying for full time jobs everywhere nearby. No luck so I am spirling my job search out, further and further away. At this point I will take any full time job anywhere in Canada. I have children who need to eat!
My questions are:
1. How would the court view my having to move far away in order to find a decent job to support my kids? Don't get me wrong...I realize that the judges presiding over my case think very highly of me by entrusting the care and welfare of my children cometely over to me but...the truth is I am NOT Jesus and can not turn a loaf of bread into twenty to feed my kids (I'm only human)
2. Will the court ever put a stop to it or do I have to take things into my own hands? ( Finding work elsewhere, moving, )
I feel so frustrated because I have the ability to climb out of this but every time I try the court allows my ex to shove me back down. Why does the court entrust me with the kids yet at the same time not allow me to take care of them by allowing my ex to destroy me? I don't get it!!!!
Bad enough my kids only have one active parent at present. It feels like the court's objective is to make orphans out of my kids!
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