The only relevance it may have, outside of getting a divorce faster, is if you encourage her spending time with him.
We call it the "Mr. Wonderful Effect". What you do is encourage her to spend time with him and to hopefully move forward with him. That gives you more time with the kids and gives her reason to want to get this over with so she can start up her life with the new guy.
It is a win/win for you as you get to spend extra time with the kids, gets her outta the house and possibly causes the process to move a little faster. The only hard part about it is sucking up your pride. If one can get over their own issues, it is a very useful tool.
We call it the "Mr. Wonderful Effect". What you do is encourage her to spend time with him and to hopefully move forward with him. That gives you more time with the kids and gives her reason to want to get this over with so she can start up her life with the new guy.
It is a win/win for you as you get to spend extra time with the kids, gets her outta the house and possibly causes the process to move a little faster. The only hard part about it is sucking up your pride. If one can get over their own issues, it is a very useful tool.
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