Hi,
Can I please have your opinion or recommendations for the following?
Situation is shared 50/50 custody of 3 kids under 13, all going to full time school. Normal schedule is 2 days with one parent, 2 with other, alternating weekends. SS and CS is being paid. Parents - one has flexible self employed job, the other has shift work, sometimes 12 hours, sometimes nights, and picking up extra shifts can be done but takes time to do so.
What is fair in the case where one parent requests that other watch the kids for a week with respect to compensating the parent watching the kids for time lost from being able to work?
Does it matter if the week is for business or pleasure?
Does it matter if one parent makes more money than the other?
What if the week is shortly followed by a week where the other parent also requests a week without the kids?
How much, if any, should the compensation be and how to calculate it?
Please consider as many situations as possible and the different types of employment of the parents if you think it is relevant. Some of you may know which parent I am, but I am just looking for a fair, workable, and simple (hopefully) answer please.
Thanks!
Can I please have your opinion or recommendations for the following?
Situation is shared 50/50 custody of 3 kids under 13, all going to full time school. Normal schedule is 2 days with one parent, 2 with other, alternating weekends. SS and CS is being paid. Parents - one has flexible self employed job, the other has shift work, sometimes 12 hours, sometimes nights, and picking up extra shifts can be done but takes time to do so.
What is fair in the case where one parent requests that other watch the kids for a week with respect to compensating the parent watching the kids for time lost from being able to work?
Does it matter if the week is for business or pleasure?
Does it matter if one parent makes more money than the other?
What if the week is shortly followed by a week where the other parent also requests a week without the kids?
How much, if any, should the compensation be and how to calculate it?
Please consider as many situations as possible and the different types of employment of the parents if you think it is relevant. Some of you may know which parent I am, but I am just looking for a fair, workable, and simple (hopefully) answer please.
Thanks!
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