I've told you all here that my husband has been emotionally abusive and paranoid the last few months. I've been hoping he'd leave, because I'm scared to ask him to. I had a legal aid certificate for a consult, which I had yesterday. Him getting half the house may be complicated but not as cut and dry as he may think, if he wishes to pursue it. I cannot change the locks even if he leaves.
Fast forward to today. I decided to check on a social media account to see if he's been posting. I found a post where he is replying to a person who was proud of herself being 12 years sober and clean from cocaine use. He told her that it was his drug of choice as a teen but couldn't afford it. Said now he can afford it and can easily find it and he's envious of those who have been able to break the habit. I confronted him weeks ago because he'd been spending an hour in the bathroom at a time and I'd heard him sniffing constantly. He was outraged at the accusation and said he was just crying. I am livid! I'm struggling to pay bills and he's sniffing all his money up his nose. I'm even more terrified because it explains the anger, the shopping addiction and his paranoid (accuses me of breaking into his locked drawers). I have kids and one is a minor. I don't know what to do. We have nowhere to go and I can't leave our home. I am so upset he put us all in this position.
Fast forward to today. I decided to check on a social media account to see if he's been posting. I found a post where he is replying to a person who was proud of herself being 12 years sober and clean from cocaine use. He told her that it was his drug of choice as a teen but couldn't afford it. Said now he can afford it and can easily find it and he's envious of those who have been able to break the habit. I confronted him weeks ago because he'd been spending an hour in the bathroom at a time and I'd heard him sniffing constantly. He was outraged at the accusation and said he was just crying. I am livid! I'm struggling to pay bills and he's sniffing all his money up his nose. I'm even more terrified because it explains the anger, the shopping addiction and his paranoid (accuses me of breaking into his locked drawers). I have kids and one is a minor. I don't know what to do. We have nowhere to go and I can't leave our home. I am so upset he put us all in this position.
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