Ex is mad at me for something he disagrees with me making a decision on during my parenting time. To retaliate, my kids are now heavily controlled with regards to when they can message or call me. They cant always “find” their phones, are forced to keep them in a central charging station where they don’t always charge and are given excuse after excuse for why they can’t message their mom. Right now I have not received a message from them when they are at his house for almost a month. One FaceTime during that whole time.
I have the kids for more than 60% of the time, but still think I am entitled to speak with our kids when at their dad’s. Our agreement states that both parties are entitled to “daily messages” from the children and that the parents will facilitate this. The kids, my daughter especially, have told me that they are super stressed about even asking to text me because they will guilt them and say “well don’t you want to spend time with your dad?”. I’m wondering what to do here. I am angry at being denied but I am even more angry that the kids want to reach out to me and can’t. Is this worth pursuing?
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I have the kids for more than 60% of the time, but still think I am entitled to speak with our kids when at their dad’s. Our agreement states that both parties are entitled to “daily messages” from the children and that the parents will facilitate this. The kids, my daughter especially, have told me that they are super stressed about even asking to text me because they will guilt them and say “well don’t you want to spend time with your dad?”. I’m wondering what to do here. I am angry at being denied but I am even more angry that the kids want to reach out to me and can’t. Is this worth pursuing?
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