I'm not sure how to do this. My husband and I have been trying to save our marriage for the last year. It's not getting any better. At least not from my point of view. We've tried, both of us, we really have. My heart's just not in it anymore.
I know it's going to hurt him. I know he's going to try to get me to keep trying. How do I make him understand that done is done, no more? Whether he agrees or not, I'm just done. I'm ready to move on. He can't fix this. I'm not even sure what "this" is. I just know that I don't love him anymore and haven't for a long time. I thought it was maybe just a rough patch, or maybe we just needed to reconnect. That's not it. I've tried to get past this feeling for almost a year and save my marriage, but it's just not working. I don't even like him anymore.
I guess it's a good thing we don't have kids. I don't want to hurt him. I just want out.
I know it's going to hurt him. I know he's going to try to get me to keep trying. How do I make him understand that done is done, no more? Whether he agrees or not, I'm just done. I'm ready to move on. He can't fix this. I'm not even sure what "this" is. I just know that I don't love him anymore and haven't for a long time. I thought it was maybe just a rough patch, or maybe we just needed to reconnect. That's not it. I've tried to get past this feeling for almost a year and save my marriage, but it's just not working. I don't even like him anymore.
I guess it's a good thing we don't have kids. I don't want to hurt him. I just want out.
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