Hi again,
So I have finished form 35.1, form 8, form 17 and form 17a. Same day as filing I had my ex served. In Ontario they are now making families attend a manditory MIP information center. My date is in a few weeks. Out first case conference is the end of March. I have asked for sole custody, giving my ex every other weekend and alternating holidays. I have also ask for an order to be made at the case conference giving me reasonable telephone access and every other weekend access to my child.
In my forms I gave my reasons as to why it would be in my daughter's best interest to live with me. These include the fact that my ex is preventing me, my family and her extended family from seeing our child without good reason (or any reason at all in some cases). She also prevented our child from visiting my mother while she was dieing and after death this month.
My other reasons included the child being locked into her room for hours at a time to clean it (including sweep and mop...she is five), toys being locked away almost always, house being filthy, the child accusing my ex's partner of "touching" her and making her lay in bed with him, our child's behavior has changed drastically in a short period of time, they use spanking; with bare hands and metal spatuchla to carry our the punishment,food being used as a form of punishment, my ex's partner will go into our child's CLEAN room and tear apart her closet and make her clean it up, my ex's partner has been caught telling people that he hate's my child because she is blond hair blue eyes and that he is angry that his child's hair color is also turning lighter with age and not staying dark, the fact that my ex is keeping our child from me but every three to six months she will contact me asking for me to take custody of our child because she cannot handle her, my ex has told people that our child is ruining her marriage and corrupting her other children she believe one child is not worth her marriage.
My child is not involved with any extra curricular activities and spends most of her time out of school locked into her bedroom to clean.
My question's are:
1) Do my requests seem reasonable? I do have a parenting plan being put together. This includes extra curricular activities that the child would pick but would not interfere with her mother's time (as she lives two and a half hours away). I would never withhold our daughter from family and will even encourage family time with my ex's family and our child. (Most of the family lives in my city)
2) Is it at the case conference that I request premission to have witnesses and evidence included? If not when or how do I include the proof that I have?
3) After my ex fills our form 10 (answer) do I get a copy of it before court?
4) I know orders aren't usually set at the conference but what are the chances of my temporary orders being made?
5) C.A.S has investigate the accusation against my daughter's step father. They cannot give me information on the investigation however I have learned that they are sending my daughter to a psychologist. (Ex says if nothing changes in three visits she is "shipping her out". Is it fair that I have requested a CPIC of my ex's current partner?
5) Is there anything I should of done that I didn't do?
If there is anything else you think that I should know please feel free to tell me. Thanks so much in advance.
So I have finished form 35.1, form 8, form 17 and form 17a. Same day as filing I had my ex served. In Ontario they are now making families attend a manditory MIP information center. My date is in a few weeks. Out first case conference is the end of March. I have asked for sole custody, giving my ex every other weekend and alternating holidays. I have also ask for an order to be made at the case conference giving me reasonable telephone access and every other weekend access to my child.
In my forms I gave my reasons as to why it would be in my daughter's best interest to live with me. These include the fact that my ex is preventing me, my family and her extended family from seeing our child without good reason (or any reason at all in some cases). She also prevented our child from visiting my mother while she was dieing and after death this month.
My other reasons included the child being locked into her room for hours at a time to clean it (including sweep and mop...she is five), toys being locked away almost always, house being filthy, the child accusing my ex's partner of "touching" her and making her lay in bed with him, our child's behavior has changed drastically in a short period of time, they use spanking; with bare hands and metal spatuchla to carry our the punishment,food being used as a form of punishment, my ex's partner will go into our child's CLEAN room and tear apart her closet and make her clean it up, my ex's partner has been caught telling people that he hate's my child because she is blond hair blue eyes and that he is angry that his child's hair color is also turning lighter with age and not staying dark, the fact that my ex is keeping our child from me but every three to six months she will contact me asking for me to take custody of our child because she cannot handle her, my ex has told people that our child is ruining her marriage and corrupting her other children she believe one child is not worth her marriage.
My child is not involved with any extra curricular activities and spends most of her time out of school locked into her bedroom to clean.
My question's are:
1) Do my requests seem reasonable? I do have a parenting plan being put together. This includes extra curricular activities that the child would pick but would not interfere with her mother's time (as she lives two and a half hours away). I would never withhold our daughter from family and will even encourage family time with my ex's family and our child. (Most of the family lives in my city)
2) Is it at the case conference that I request premission to have witnesses and evidence included? If not when or how do I include the proof that I have?
3) After my ex fills our form 10 (answer) do I get a copy of it before court?
4) I know orders aren't usually set at the conference but what are the chances of my temporary orders being made?
5) C.A.S has investigate the accusation against my daughter's step father. They cannot give me information on the investigation however I have learned that they are sending my daughter to a psychologist. (Ex says if nothing changes in three visits she is "shipping her out". Is it fair that I have requested a CPIC of my ex's current partner?
5) Is there anything I should of done that I didn't do?
If there is anything else you think that I should know please feel free to tell me. Thanks so much in advance.
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