Ok so I'll try to keep this simple. I need some opinions for peace of mind.
I am married to a man who had a child out of wedlock as a teenager. They were never married. Their daughter is 9yrs old & they have been apart for 7 yrs.
The baby mama created a lot of problems for us when my husband and I started dating. She made of point of re-kindling relationships with his mom, dad, grandparents on both side as well as his best friend. She used their daughter as an excuse to contact them. The idea was to pressure him through them to get rid of me. She had people spying on us on Facebook & told us she had hacked into our accounts. It didn't work and we have been married for 4 yrs now. There were a few casualties along the way. He almost lost his relationship with his mom but we were able to fix that. She now sees how she was being used and cut ties with the baby mama. His best friend was lost for good unfortunately due to his wife.
Anyway, the baby mama is finally dating someone serious which has been great for us as she has been much easier to deal with. The problem is she is dating someone who we know. We knew this guy when he was married to someone else. Baby mama & this guy shacked up & shortly afterwards decided to go to court for full custody of his daughter. The mother of this child has contacted us recently for information about visitation & vacation. She is representing herself in the court case & was just looking for info. Well we emailed her a copy of vacation notice sent to baby mama as well as shared their custody order back in August.
A week ago, a few days before the case was to be heard my husband was cornered by his baby mama about this email. Of course he admitted that we gave it to her boyfriends ex. She got upset & said it was private information & did not want it shared with anyone. I was also asked by the mom for help filling out her case brief has I have some experience with this which I did.
This past Monday a case conference was held. The boyfriend threatened the mother, after he lost in court, with being sued by my husbands baby mama if she continues to be involved with us. He made her aware that he knew about the email that we sent her about visitation. The only way he could know is if he was into her email. Not sure what she can sue for. The baby mama knew when she started dating her boyfriend that he was connected to us. Would she have a case? Mu husband is concerned that the baby mama may cause issues with his visitation. Their order is old and very vague. Any thoughts?
I am married to a man who had a child out of wedlock as a teenager. They were never married. Their daughter is 9yrs old & they have been apart for 7 yrs.
The baby mama created a lot of problems for us when my husband and I started dating. She made of point of re-kindling relationships with his mom, dad, grandparents on both side as well as his best friend. She used their daughter as an excuse to contact them. The idea was to pressure him through them to get rid of me. She had people spying on us on Facebook & told us she had hacked into our accounts. It didn't work and we have been married for 4 yrs now. There were a few casualties along the way. He almost lost his relationship with his mom but we were able to fix that. She now sees how she was being used and cut ties with the baby mama. His best friend was lost for good unfortunately due to his wife.
Anyway, the baby mama is finally dating someone serious which has been great for us as she has been much easier to deal with. The problem is she is dating someone who we know. We knew this guy when he was married to someone else. Baby mama & this guy shacked up & shortly afterwards decided to go to court for full custody of his daughter. The mother of this child has contacted us recently for information about visitation & vacation. She is representing herself in the court case & was just looking for info. Well we emailed her a copy of vacation notice sent to baby mama as well as shared their custody order back in August.
A week ago, a few days before the case was to be heard my husband was cornered by his baby mama about this email. Of course he admitted that we gave it to her boyfriends ex. She got upset & said it was private information & did not want it shared with anyone. I was also asked by the mom for help filling out her case brief has I have some experience with this which I did.
This past Monday a case conference was held. The boyfriend threatened the mother, after he lost in court, with being sued by my husbands baby mama if she continues to be involved with us. He made her aware that he knew about the email that we sent her about visitation. The only way he could know is if he was into her email. Not sure what she can sue for. The baby mama knew when she started dating her boyfriend that he was connected to us. Would she have a case? Mu husband is concerned that the baby mama may cause issues with his visitation. Their order is old and very vague. Any thoughts?
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