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Old 11-12-2012, 11:43 AM
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This may just be passing on information. To the extent that it comes on the heels of a period of very high conflict, I might think that the email is a record for him that there may be issues with the children's relationship with you.

I am not saying there ARE issues, I am saying that he now has a record of an email he sent "discussing" the situation. My ex used to do this all the time.

Have warm one-on-one with your child and say you love him and his brother exactly the same, that's why you had twins!

Then send a brief note back to the dad stating the child says the same thing about him.