By far and away your best option is to get your ex on board with this. You can play things absolutely perfectly and still lose this if you go as far as court.
You need to lay out exactly why the move would be better for the children. Show actual tangible benefit to them. (ie. Better schools, less metropolitan area with less crime, more opportunities, etc, etc.)
The financial benefit is only a small part of that.
If your ex chooses to contest this, she can screw it up a fair bit and still win. Perfectly played, you have MAYBE a 50% chance of pulling it off. If she plays it perfectly as well, you have 0 chance.
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