I just had a thread up regarding my wife not letting me use/have/photocopy my sons legal docs(passport-OHIP-BC).Now in the 11th hour she has refused to honour a basic agreement of joint custody (time & access to be worked out thru mediation).
She is Chinese and had previously threatened to take him to China to live.
She has no job now and has plenty of resources there in China and a free residence to live in.And a trip is booked which I signed off in August.Altho I could easily revoke that.A friend suggested I try to revoke his passport entirely.
In addition she has 'almost' violently refused to let me take my son to visit my family members over the last year.
We are just about to move out of our home that we have just sold and she is also saying she no longer wants to split the sale 50/50.
I had a lawyer who was helping me before as my wife had hired a lawyer
(to threaten me into submission-quite uselessly).However she doesn't litigate.Now my previous lawyer has recommended family lawyers that do.
So I will be consulting ASAP.
However-I have my own place-am working-have tons of family support-
I now feel I should have my son 50% of the time as the situation is so unstable.This could lead to physical confrontation.I don't do that-I don't want my son to be around that and quite frankly my wife scares me-she is a large strong woman and I doubt I could even raise a finger even to protect myself.
So... are there any immediate things I can do at a courthouse 'myself'
to protect my child and my parenting rights?
One other thing: I was prepared to do everything thru lawyers/mediation before but it was my wife who called off her lawyers and wanted to work everything out between us.So it seems shes been stringing me along
for the past 6 months.
Sorry for the ramble here.
M
She is Chinese and had previously threatened to take him to China to live.
She has no job now and has plenty of resources there in China and a free residence to live in.And a trip is booked which I signed off in August.Altho I could easily revoke that.A friend suggested I try to revoke his passport entirely.
In addition she has 'almost' violently refused to let me take my son to visit my family members over the last year.
We are just about to move out of our home that we have just sold and she is also saying she no longer wants to split the sale 50/50.
I had a lawyer who was helping me before as my wife had hired a lawyer
(to threaten me into submission-quite uselessly).However she doesn't litigate.Now my previous lawyer has recommended family lawyers that do.
So I will be consulting ASAP.
However-I have my own place-am working-have tons of family support-
I now feel I should have my son 50% of the time as the situation is so unstable.This could lead to physical confrontation.I don't do that-I don't want my son to be around that and quite frankly my wife scares me-she is a large strong woman and I doubt I could even raise a finger even to protect myself.
So... are there any immediate things I can do at a courthouse 'myself'
to protect my child and my parenting rights?
One other thing: I was prepared to do everything thru lawyers/mediation before but it was my wife who called off her lawyers and wanted to work everything out between us.So it seems shes been stringing me along
for the past 6 months.
Sorry for the ramble here.
M
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