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Old 12-05-2017, 09:27 PM
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The schedule you now have would definitely keep you from having a love life. You have to know that if you have moved on with your life, and she hasn't, that this is likely the reason for her resistance to change.

With this ^ in mind, I think Rioe has excellent advice. You have to present a child-focused argument for your position. Any hint that it is self-serving will likely kibosh things for you. Often men in your situation get the schedule changed somewhat and/or then hire a nanny... ex goes totally ape-shit nuts and off to court we go. Good thing to look ahead to what you truly hope to accomplish.
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