HI, as stated I am new. My counsellor suggested I check out a support group. Just over a month ago my husband of about 16 yrs...says it is not working... i knew we were growing apart and was actually trying to see a counsellor the next week. He says he is not sure what he wants. Then a week and a half later he tells me he has someone...someone he met playing games online... she has been there for him. I will certainly admit i did my share of wrong things. Wish i had talked sooner, wish I knew my drinking bothered him (have since stopped entirely). I cannot wrap my head around the idea that we did not talk and now it is too late. He does not even want to try for our little girl. He says he still cares about me but not in that way.
Until I find a place we still live under the same roof... I am thinking of following the advice I saw on a previous thread... trying to act like I am moving on. Half of me is... half of me is praying he will want to try again. When he is nice to me it is torture, it is like old times except I cannot go to him now. I am trying to not think about the other woman. How do people get past this? I am so filled with regret. I just cant believe he is with someone else and has no interest in even trying with me.
Well that is my vent. Thanks
Until I find a place we still live under the same roof... I am thinking of following the advice I saw on a previous thread... trying to act like I am moving on. Half of me is... half of me is praying he will want to try again. When he is nice to me it is torture, it is like old times except I cannot go to him now. I am trying to not think about the other woman. How do people get past this? I am so filled with regret. I just cant believe he is with someone else and has no interest in even trying with me.
Well that is my vent. Thanks
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