Ok here is my situation, we split just over 3 years ago we had to fire sale the house cause she had to run off to her new job so we split the loss of 12 grand on the sale of the house . I paid off the over draft on the joint accounts and the credit cards so I am 15 grand in debt . child support is paid at $340 a week, thru fro so that is done.
she got the van and all the house hold stuff .
I was left with tools and personal stuff and no car.
I have no savings just my pension .
my job with this pension stared 3 years before we split .
we are both broke and can't afford lawyers and the pension company wants $600 bucks to break it down and I can't afford that either.
my questions are these...
did her portion of my pension stop when we split or is it still increasing ?
being she got everything else and I got stuck with more debt can she still get my pension ? that will mean she got everything
I had a another pension years a go and we cashed it in during our marriage when times got tough , some one told me that because of that she has to leave this one alone.
is this true ?
so were do I stand and what is the best thing to do ?
I don't want to find out that if we can't afford a divorce for a while yet that she is getting more pension as time goes on cause knowing her she will wait till it's bigger and then do it and screw up all my retirment plans with is in 23 years .
thanks in advance for your time and advice .
she got the van and all the house hold stuff .
I was left with tools and personal stuff and no car.
I have no savings just my pension .
my job with this pension stared 3 years before we split .
we are both broke and can't afford lawyers and the pension company wants $600 bucks to break it down and I can't afford that either.
my questions are these...
did her portion of my pension stop when we split or is it still increasing ?
being she got everything else and I got stuck with more debt can she still get my pension ? that will mean she got everything
I had a another pension years a go and we cashed it in during our marriage when times got tough , some one told me that because of that she has to leave this one alone.
is this true ?
so were do I stand and what is the best thing to do ?
I don't want to find out that if we can't afford a divorce for a while yet that she is getting more pension as time goes on cause knowing her she will wait till it's bigger and then do it and screw up all my retirment plans with is in 23 years .
thanks in advance for your time and advice .
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