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Originally Posted by iona6656
this is what I find so odd. When I dealt with CAS_the caseworker who interviewed me said IF I was to go back to my ex- they would intervene and potentially remove the child from my care.
They never gave me advice. They just provided me with resources - and more importantly drilled me on what my plans were in terms of parenting- there was heavy emphasis on "you better not take that child back to the house".
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What you don't want is some CAS worker that also happens to have mental health issues / control issues turn against you so play helpless. Their ego writes checks they can't cash.
Lie to them and say.
"My lawyer told me that no matter what I must follow the order of the judge in the order even if a social worker ordered me not too, they were very emphatic that I could lose custody. I am afraid, can you send me a letter telling me what I am to do?"
My guess is you won't hear from them. I am sure there is a better response than that "Did you file the motion to have access changed?"
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