In the words of a few posters on this site.....You Can't Fix Stupid....and I deal with Stupid constantly. If I can't fix it, what can I do?
I have posted asking what I can do to force NCP to exercise access time. A questions was posed to me that I have been contemplating for a very long time. "why would you want to force kids on a parent?" One of those that makes you go hmmmmmmm. I don't want to force my kids on NCP, I just want them to have the opportunity to figure out that NCP is a douche for themselves. However I firmly believe that they are figuring this out now. Access has been sporadic, scarce and short. Kids haven't seen NCP in 8 weeks now. At what point do I get to stop this? Or can I? Order says EOW with Holidays and long weekends. Would it be wrong to request adjustments to the access so the kids have a better idea of visits as well as more routine, and stability?
Thoughts, comments, questions, concerns??!!
I have posted asking what I can do to force NCP to exercise access time. A questions was posed to me that I have been contemplating for a very long time. "why would you want to force kids on a parent?" One of those that makes you go hmmmmmmm. I don't want to force my kids on NCP, I just want them to have the opportunity to figure out that NCP is a douche for themselves. However I firmly believe that they are figuring this out now. Access has been sporadic, scarce and short. Kids haven't seen NCP in 8 weeks now. At what point do I get to stop this? Or can I? Order says EOW with Holidays and long weekends. Would it be wrong to request adjustments to the access so the kids have a better idea of visits as well as more routine, and stability?
Thoughts, comments, questions, concerns??!!
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