My new SO has an 18yr old daughter and is in the process of setting up a visitation schedule for the younger daughter (12yr old).
The dad is kind of a dead beat so he's kind of getting a break on paying for kids and my SO is asking he sees them every other weekend. Which is pretty straightforward for the 12yr old.
For the 18yr old however, I'm having trouble figuring out how it will work. I think just whatever he arranges with her is fine but there is also the aspect of her "Expenses" on the weekends she is supposed to be with him but she isn't. If she stays with us and we go out to eat for example then that's an expense we're incurring that he should be.... I don't care that much, it's more about the principle. What do you think?
The dad is kind of a dead beat so he's kind of getting a break on paying for kids and my SO is asking he sees them every other weekend. Which is pretty straightforward for the 12yr old.
For the 18yr old however, I'm having trouble figuring out how it will work. I think just whatever he arranges with her is fine but there is also the aspect of her "Expenses" on the weekends she is supposed to be with him but she isn't. If she stays with us and we go out to eat for example then that's an expense we're incurring that he should be.... I don't care that much, it's more about the principle. What do you think?
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