The red-flag question, that comes up when you arrive to pickup your child, from the other parent.
I knew something was up, as soon as I pulled up to her place, as I could see her standing on her front step, by herself (no D5 visible).
sigh.
Get out of my vehicle, to open car door for when D5 comes out, and...
Ex: "Umm.. Can we talk for a minute?"
Me: "I'm kind of in a rush. What about? Is it important?"
Ex: "Can you explain this too me <myname>? Can I expect this BS every year from you <myname>?" (she has a paper in her hand)
Me: "I don't know what you have there. Can I see?"
Ex didn't show me what she had, but started to go into some tirade about Revenue Canada and her taxes, and my "claims".
Me: "I don't know your tax situation. Your tax issues, are your tax issues. You never provide me your tax returns, so that is not something I know about." (we are court ordered to exchange them, I do, she never does)
Her: "My government business is none of your business <myname>"
(actually, it kind of is, since she's supposed to exchange her returns...I of course didn't bring that up further though).
She kept ranting, so I just told her,
Me: "Like I said, I don't know your tax situation and I haven't heard from CRA about this. Can you get D5? I'll wait in the car for her."
Ex kept ranting. Said she would send CRA everything she has, and ruin me. Said CRA won't pay me, for "vacations" with D5. Ex called me a derogatory name.
I'm just sitting in my car waiting, while she continues on.
She stopped ranting and called D5 out, and D5 was out a few seconds later.
I`m sure D5 could hear her.
Embarassing, because a neighbour of hers was also out, doing yard-work, and could hear this. I don't think ex and this neighbour get along though, as I'm suspecting he hears other crap when I'm not there trying to pickup our child.
Given what she said to me, I'm guessing that CRA is simply crediting me part of the child tax benefit again, as they are doing each year. Because I have badly worded order on this part, they only credit me for part of the year (summer season). But they had communicated to us last time, that they would be doing this. Perhaps there is some other unknown to me issue. I honestly don't care.
Ex continues to ignore requests to have exchange location moved. That won't change, unless a court orders it, it seems.
I knew something was up, as soon as I pulled up to her place, as I could see her standing on her front step, by herself (no D5 visible).
sigh.
Get out of my vehicle, to open car door for when D5 comes out, and...
Ex: "Umm.. Can we talk for a minute?"
Me: "I'm kind of in a rush. What about? Is it important?"
Ex: "Can you explain this too me <myname>? Can I expect this BS every year from you <myname>?" (she has a paper in her hand)
Me: "I don't know what you have there. Can I see?"
Ex didn't show me what she had, but started to go into some tirade about Revenue Canada and her taxes, and my "claims".
Me: "I don't know your tax situation. Your tax issues, are your tax issues. You never provide me your tax returns, so that is not something I know about." (we are court ordered to exchange them, I do, she never does)
Her: "My government business is none of your business <myname>"
(actually, it kind of is, since she's supposed to exchange her returns...I of course didn't bring that up further though).
She kept ranting, so I just told her,
Me: "Like I said, I don't know your tax situation and I haven't heard from CRA about this. Can you get D5? I'll wait in the car for her."
Ex kept ranting. Said she would send CRA everything she has, and ruin me. Said CRA won't pay me, for "vacations" with D5. Ex called me a derogatory name.
I'm just sitting in my car waiting, while she continues on.
She stopped ranting and called D5 out, and D5 was out a few seconds later.
I`m sure D5 could hear her.
Embarassing, because a neighbour of hers was also out, doing yard-work, and could hear this. I don't think ex and this neighbour get along though, as I'm suspecting he hears other crap when I'm not there trying to pickup our child.
Given what she said to me, I'm guessing that CRA is simply crediting me part of the child tax benefit again, as they are doing each year. Because I have badly worded order on this part, they only credit me for part of the year (summer season). But they had communicated to us last time, that they would be doing this. Perhaps there is some other unknown to me issue. I honestly don't care.
Ex continues to ignore requests to have exchange location moved. That won't change, unless a court orders it, it seems.
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