I have many times invited posters to tell their ex about this site. Reality checks are good for both sides.
Howerver I am not aware any one has.
My ex and her lawyer(s) love to put this site down and are condescending that I self represent and that I don't know what is what.
It is unlikely that both ex's would hang around here as the most common purpose for being here is that one of the ex's is unreasonable - and unreasonable people don't like this site
I have many times invited posters to tell their ex about this site. Reality checks are good for both sides.
Howerver I am not aware any one has.
My ex and her lawyer(s) love to put this site down and are condescending that I self represent and that I don't know what is what.
It is unlikely that both ex's would hang around here as the most common purpose for being here is that one of the ex's is unreasonable - and unreasonable people don't like this site
And I am sure there have been a number who post here, and have ex's that watch their every move.
I've been through that before, which is why I have made efforts to change up my information about number of kids, ages, and court dates, etc. to make it hard to pinpoint me.
Just makes it hard for me to keep my own story straight here, lol. Have to keep notes of my online personality details, so I don't confuse everyone.
I may be guilty of saying too much of a personal nature, but it is nothing I wouldn't stand behind in court.
I try to live by the "if you wouldn't want to see it on the front page of the newspaper, don't post it on the internet" , but I'm not always successful.
And I am sure there have been a number who post here, and have ex's that watch their every move.
I've been through that before, which is why I have made efforts to change up my information about number of kids, ages, and court dates, etc. to make it hard to pinpoint me.
Just makes it hard for me to keep my own story straight here, lol. Have to keep notes of my online personality details, so I don't confuse everyone.
I try hard to keep information about my partner's case general so Ex wouldn't be able to pinpoint the identity; and he's such a great Dad in his own mind that he'd never guess I was speaking of him. Must be some other douchebag lol.
I may be guilty of saying too much of a personal nature, but it is nothing I wouldn't stand behind in court.
I try to live by the "if you wouldn't want to see it on the front page of the newspaper, don't post it on the internet" , but I'm not always successful.
I think it is something every member on here needs to be reminded of from time to time - make sure that you are willing to stand behind everything you say on this forum, the same as every other social media outlet.
I'm pretty sure my ex has found me here... she was telling me "Karma is a bitch..." a few times and either we're more alike than I thought or she read my post on the topic....
I'm careful enough with what I say that I think its defensible....
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