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Old 02-21-2019, 03:29 PM
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Its all normal bullshit. You just have to shake your head. When I first started dating my man he didn’t tell me or show me anything but would jump when the phone rang, jump when his email dinged or get really sad when he read his email. After I witnessed her pull a stunt he started letting me help him work through it. Her messages are always full of some guilt worthy bs about how the kids matter or how he is a parent blah blah blah. Meanwhile she has alienated them completely.

Best advice? Talk to a therapist. Second best advice? Consider the source and be happy you are no longer married to them. You control the crazy you let in. Or as I like to say—you can’t control other people but you can control your reaction.

You can do this!
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